Today would have been our 6 year wedding anniversary. Instead of reminiscing we are rewiring. Instead of celebrating we are settling into our new normal – the one where we are not together. The one where we Co-parent instead of just parent. The one where we will soon welcome our third baby and do that differently, too. It’s okay. It’s all going to be okay. This is what I tell myself each night before bed – where I sleep alone and shed tears of both grief and relief. The marriage is broken but a partnership lives on. The kind of partnership that solely focuses on the lives we made together. The kind where we are selfless in fresh ways in order to make them feel the most comfortable. Because they are what is worth honor. No kind of separation can take away from the beauty and light that has already been born. Always look for good in the hard days. It is there and it is waiting for you.